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1- Verbal intelligence

2- Numerical

3- Engineering (the ability to manipulate in your mind space)

4- Creative intelligence ( Ability to use color, space , dimension )

5- Interpersonal ( Ability of the brain to relate to all other brains) Communicate properly with all other intelligence

6-Intrapersonal intelligence ( knowing one’s self and the way one’s self function) self talk

7- Sensual Intelligence : Ability of all the functions to function with great ease.

8- Bodily kinesthetic intelligence :

9- spiritual Intelligence

10- Intelligence of Intelligence ( Combination of elements that make up Genius)

1. Make a decision , either do something or STOP doing something. Decisiveness should be practiced until it comes naturally.
2. Develop a clear vision of what it is you are trying to accomplish. decide what you want and determine the price you should pay to get it and resolve to pay that price.
3. plan every day in advance. six P formula - Prior proper planning prevents poor performance. make weekly monthly and hourly list. specify the time line, make a daily list of your activities befre you sleep the previous night  WORK FROM WRITTEN LIST
4. use the ABCDE method to set priorities.
5. Separate the urgent from the important - U&I, U&NI, I&NU, NU&NI
6. used the law of forced efficiency - there is never enough time to do everything, but there is always time to do the most important thing. -> What is the highest value use of my time? -> What is it that you do that yields the highest rewards to me or my company? -> Why am I on the payroll? -> What are the few elements that determine the most success to my job -> What can i and only i do that if done well can make a real difference -> What is the most valuable use of my time right now?
7. Apply the 80/20 rule : 80% of the things you do will account for 20% of your value. practice creative procrastination.
8. work at your energy peaks. identify your peak times and work you reports at them
9. Practice single handling with Key Tasks :  2 keys to success is FOCUS & CONCENTRATION
10. Eat that frog ;
11. Organize your work space. Work from a clean desk.USE the TRAFF formula
12. Use Travel Time productively - Listen to educational audio programs,
13. Get better at your key Task.
14. Work in real time, develop a sense of urgency, develop a biase for action. People who do things quickly and well are considered to be more competent. Slow decision making puts a drag on your activities. Develop a reputation for speed and dependability
15. Re engineer your work :
16. Re invent your self each year. re evaluating every aspect of your life
17. Practice ZERO Based thinking ; Is there anything in my life, knowing what i now know i would not have to get into if i had to do it over again.
18. Set clear posteriorities .What sort of things you can stop doing?
19. Keep you life in balance, the reason you are working so you can spend time with family, you want to be as successful as you can,
20. Plan every project carefully. A job that requires several steps, view yourself as a project manager through out your life. the most important key in success is clarity, then organize it by priority and sequence.
21. be intensely action oriented.  the faster you move the better you feel, the more energy you have, the more you get paid,
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Its been like off for 2 days now and i keep procratinating, when will i ever get serious about the way that i want to feel, be have & do all my posts are just about me cribbing…

"EVERYBODY LOVES YOU HERE" THIS IS THE SONG PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND.

Keeps me goin, I think after the pick up thing so many gurus, so may people with their methods and all this confusion drives one crazy. is it wrong to be DIRECT? I wish I could expand my social circle comfortably not having to be in such a soup, its a fact people in this place respect for the corporate profile that you have.

This gets me thinking, why should she want to be with you, what kind of value do you have to offer her?

you thought your cell phone would add value to you, it didnt, you thought your post paid line will add value to you, it didnt. now what buy another thing to get you make yourself valueable? its not on the outside what matter its on the inside, when will you get this through your head? how could you portray to be more valuebale?

what are the characteristics that you need to contain to make myself feel more of value? is it a car, is it confidence, is it more humor? i do not know from what frame of mind am i typing this, its just that I am so mind fucked, its like feeling of being alone, a feeling of not being wanted. not feeling important. how do you change that?????????? I do i become that guy, that every one wants to be around….

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Goal for today - 5 ideas I can take forward.

Four factors :

1. Market Research is everything. 95% of mistakes are made at the this stage. Never ever guess.
2. Traffic : without traffic you have sqaut. You don’t have to spend a single cent.
3. Conversion :Take the traffic into dollars
4. Product : If the product is placed last, the market going to tell us what they desire.

Topics that interest me

1) Dating

2)self help industry

3)Internet investing

4)Magazines

5) domains / hosting

tools of the trade - Pre season training

1. Twitter / Twirl
2. the thirty day challenge tool bar
3. Flock, settings  & addons
4. Google reader
5. google subscribe
6. youtube
7. stumble upon
8. friend feed

Creating a google alert for your niche.

after long wait for a postpaid line. i finally got one, it took some time but the offer as of now is really good. I get the first one month free and then i pay only for the second  month the data line is in combination with the post paid line. It takes not much of my time although i feel it should have been ones the calls begin to flow in. Anyway Today is the first ofDecember. And  I am rehashing  as December is career wise going to be very hectic and i really hoope i will be able to cope up with the same.  i wish i could not have to wait for my product launch to complete based on the software and torrents that I am downloading

I also got myself a creative webcam for around KD 8 which is pretty okay but right now All i am talking about is expense and no income flow need to work on Pricing and marketting strategy.

My first project to be launched will be a free local business directory. The initial investment will be approximately KD 15 + KD 3 for the domain. plus loads of time.

working on it right away.

as of now i am chasing 2 rabbits : women. I am always chasing both simultaneously which ruins my focus. i dont think both are equally valued. so as of now…. i am deciding the chase is gonna be after money and my online business… but then again my mind goes to the fact that the 75% of your happiness comes from relationships. well i need to  ignore that belief right now. I am determined to succeed with my online business….. if i do not i will loose all my hope….. wish me luck….cheers!

24 hours back i was so nervous & the still remains.. i am adjacent to the location i was… why is this feeling of emptiness inside of me? how do i overcome this? i have read and listened to loads of material…. which has got me all confused and unclear about my objectivies…

i dont know everytime i make a post which declares a decision it never happens, should i just quit the idea of blogging and get to pen and paper will it make me will better probably carry journal around all the time which will remind me…

this feeling of emptiness, consist of the following :

1. fear of being good person
2. fear of letting a woman get the power over me
3. fear over loosing my job
4. fear of what people think about me
5. fear of not being a good son to my parents
6. fear about never becoming what i want to be
7. fear of failure
8. fear of always having to work for  a living
9. fear of being rejected socially
10. fear of loosing the love for the relationship that i in.

someone once said the death of fear is certain when you face the fear, if it was that easy to face all of the above i would not be sitting here wondering wht does it take? why should it be so difficult to get out of your comfort zone. all i want to be is accepted with high regard socially, that is really important all these years i thought i this was not guy wh considers opinions of people important then eventually it came unto me that your network is your worth. the amount of contacts that you have is your worth, the more number of people you know and can keep in your pocket is your worth, so what must i do to get this desired result. should i be pondering on it forever….

1. How do i be a master of persuasion
2. how do i get people to like me in the first meet
3. how do i get to expand my social network
4. how do i get my cellphone to ring all the time with important calls making me feel important
5. how do i get to more done with less stress

this is what is going on in my mind right now… i am going to keep a journal…. if not all the months in 2008 at least dec 2008 is going be like how i want to be…. i wish myself all the best…..

An evening in a coffee shop just one woman in front of me having a good time with the guy she is sitting with me, the apparently discuss me  and it gets me so uncomfortable I wish i would be more comfortable around women, i went back to my days when i had super confidence and was really comfortable when i was any woman, i felt i had lost all of that felt the need to regain all of that… was reallizing how low i had done with the day to day pressures drowning me deeper and deeper I wish i could overcome that and i felt that i had to . so i went back to my chair and started blogging listening to david tavare it was getting me high spirited, show me the things when i am dreaming, sow me now…. blogging makes me feel good getting the shit out of my system makes me feel so light…

i will be purchasing a software for $ 44 which will help me make my biz directory which help me launch my project and that i need support to be myself  i guess back then it was the woman i had then, well rehashing like crazy…. wishing me all th best thank john the don you came….love you mate…..

1. Buy a new watch
2. Stop smoking
3. Buy a new mini laptop tp take to work
4. Use my laptop winamp as an alarm clock
5. Buy a mobile with -> internet/digi cam
6. upgrade my wardrobe to winter selection
7. Shop for summer wear for the next summer as it will be cheap on clearance sale
8. Start waking up at 5
9. Meditating for 20 mins daily
10. Exercise for an hour daily. basic dumbells
11. Work on my internet business
12. Start my 90 day routine for my p/u and self help routine
13. Open an NRE bank account and give standing instructions to transfer an amount monthly.

As of now the most important of all of this is stop smoking…. which i will be focusing at all times…listen to all the possible products…and read all the material i can get to stop smoking…One thing at a time, Multi tasking or doing too much at once makes us useless… First I will stop smoking and then move on to the next. Cause as i replace this habit and it will enhance my personality overall. so here goes….